Recent content by Leprecorn

Thank you so so so much. I was told I was being selfish for putting my needs over theirs. It’s not selfishness, it’s just not what I’m comfortable with. Also, it wasn’t either of them calling me selfish, it was a third party.

I don’t know that I can answer most questions but what it comes down to is that yes, I am my own worst enemy and that’s something I need more therapy for. Hubby knew I liked her but didn’t know I wouldn’t be ok with the two of them because honestly I didn’t know either until it happened. I know...

Im sorry, I can’t figure that quote thing out. So now I know I have no interest in a triad but she does, so that’s gonna be the end of that which breaks my heart or whatever. Thank you for making me not feel like a failure for not handling it. I wish I went about it without shutting down and...

I cannot thank you both enough. I felt like such a failure for not being able to accept any situation and feel comfortable with it. But you both make me feel like it’s ok to feel how I feel. For assorted reasons, I’m down on myself because how I was raised and that’s something I’ve tried working...

Galagirl I didn’t consider it cheating because I allow my husband to be with whoever as he sees fit. He didn’t know how much of a problem I’d have cause I didn’t know either. They were hoping for a triad thing but I just can’t. I’ll always be too insecure and constantly push away. She’s already...

Tinwen, we’ve discussed it though not this situation cause I didn’t know how I was going to feel. We’ve only been poly for a few years and both had a relationship that the other was in no way involved in. And all this stuff went down 2 nights ago.

It wasn’t exactly cheating. I knew she had feelings for him too and I tried my hardest to be ok with it, especially since hubby didn’t have much interest in her. We spent the night talking (the chick and I) about being in a relationship and it was great. The next morning my husband said after I...

I fell for a girl who is amazing. She has feelings for me as well as my husband. However, I’ve been with my husband for 16 years and after finding out that they two are fooling around, it made me sick. I have such strong feelings for her but I can’t share her with my husband. I can’t watch them...