Recent content by lilith108

that is a great response. thank you. Everyone is doing their best - all three of us are deeply caring people. But yes - that's exactly how I feel - that I am doing the heavy lifting. So much shadow work...so much working on myself to be able to hold this. Thank you for witnessing this in my journey

Yes. It is hard for me to digest because on the one hand I can understand why she would feel hostile towards me - because we are feeling breathing human beings, and this stuff can be so hard! On the other hand, it really hurts because I actually have not personally been instrumental to this new...

thank you for taking the time to reply. I think it was a quite the bombshell for her. And ye s- she does have other partners. He is a deeply ethical person and loyal person- but believes in honouring where one is at. And yes - I guess that means he can change again. But anyone can - can't they...

Hi there, I have been in a relationship with a polyamorous partner for the last 18 months. We have an incredibe relationship. I have been open to polyamory in theory. However - in practice I simply do not want to be sexually intimate with anyone else but him at this point. This is simply what...

Hi all. First time on this site. Hope I am posting in the right place. I am a person who has been feeling into polyamory and relationship anarchy for the last few years. Intellectually I am very comfortable with non-monogamous notions, but my heart and emotional reactions have their own timing...