Recent content by Lilyan

But isn't it nice he feels comfortable being with you? That's how I take it with Dom, he never gets dressed up for me and I don't expect him to. I know how he looks like when he's going out, he wears nice jeans and shoes. When he's with me, he wears his comfy clothes and working boots and I...

Would less details about sexual exploring help? I don't tell much nothing about my adventures with Dom for my husband Gavin, because I know he does a lot of comparing. I share only necessary info, like broken condom and need of morning-after pill... And the first question from Gavin was: "Oh...

Oh I see, I thought there's something going on already. Yeah why not invite him in :) 20 years younger lover sounds great!

Hehe! That's great nycindie :)

That's how it usually is, just chit-chat and hanging out. But there's been sexual tension between us too, and it got higher and higher until we couldn't resist it anymore. He texted me and the messages turned "dirty" soon and we met on next night. And again on becoming, and again... :) Damn he...

Dom and I are lover-friends ;) I don't think we'll start to date... We just like to hang out together and have hot sex at nights. But going out together "officially"... No, or not any time soon.

Everything is better than well here :) We are becoming closer friends with Dom. He popped in for few minutes... when I wasn't at home. Husband got a chance to have a little chit-chat with him and it went better than the previous time they met.

It was one of my weaknesses too. I'm still working on it too, at times. I'm sure you are working on it very well :)

You are just taking control of your own life. Making your own decisions. You don't have to speak with anyone and wait for their approval. My parents don't accept my views so I just don't talk about religious things with them. It's not their business that I have left the church.

Cattiva, yes it wouldn't feel odd to me if he was my boyfriend or something like that. For me it's something family members or close friends or boy/girlfriends do, walk in without knocking/ calling/ texting first. We never call or make schedules or anything with Dom, I just go there. He could...

I was spending time with Dom on last week, again at his place. He said I could come and go the way I like, just straight in, even when he's not at home. Umm...? Is that odd? I wouldn't even go to my siblings homes without knocking first. I've met his brother twice, I thought he was a friend...

Has he changed his behaviour lately, or has he been looking for new women constantly from the beginning of your relationship (and before that)?

Hislittlekitten, I'm glad things are getting better there :) Thanks for sharing your guidelines, they'll help me think what my would be, if needed.

I'm having similar thoughts with you, kdt26417. Thanks :)

Thanks for sharing your experience, hislittlekitten. And sorry to hear how things are going there :( I know my neighbor, I'll call him Dom from now on, likes to "bring women home (from bar)", we have talked about it with him and it's ok for me. The guy I was dating earlier, had many other...