Recent content by lilyankh

My boyfriend is not interested in dating anyone else. He doesn't read English very well. I wish I could find a book in Spanish about polyamory. Part of the issue is that he is new to the poly lifestyle.

Making myself more clear Thank you, everyone! All of you have been helpful, especially NYCindie. You gave me a lot of suggestions. I realize now I was not clear enough. My husband is easily turned on by me. I don't have to do much. He's always ready to go. I do the special things he likes. The...

No one is interested in dating others right now.

Main Issue: I've been with my husband for 5 years; I love him and can't live without him. No one knows me better. But his self-esteem has been low, and our sex life has been on and off, and boring, for at least a year. No matter what he does, I just don't get wet anymore for him. We have to use...

I have been with my husband for five years, married for three. I have been with my boyfriend for about nine months. I don’t think he is jealous. He is more just lonely and sad he can’t have me all the time, as he could if he were in a monogamous relationship. He was not poly until he fell in...

I have two primaries, my husband and my boyfriend. My husband is very busy and works a lot. I don't get much time with him during the week at all, but he is always free on Saturdays, so he gets most of that day and night with me. Then there is my boyfriend. He has a lot of free time. We spend...

Phy, I'm in the exact same relationship. I'm a hinge in a vee. Husband and boyfriend are primaries for me and both straight. I am bi and 29 too. Ha! I just thought that was cool. We are just babies when it comes to being poly, though. There are so many issues to iron out. It's overwhelming. My...

Well...we had a threesome in the very beginning when it was all just lust and adventure...but now they are relationships and love...I think we will do a threesome again but I'm not sure when yet. Thank you for your advice after talking to them I've decided to do nothing on the actual day. I am...

Thank you all for your answers and suggestions I obviously don't like it that he can't sleep, and that he feels uncomfortable, because I care about him. Also, my boyfriend's place is not very comfortable (only a twin bed) and I prefer to be home. But most importantly we all want to live...

I am a female in a closed vee relationship with two hetero men. We are all new to polyamory. When my boyfriend spends the night, my husband can't sleep. He lies awake, and every noise or sound makes him wonder if we are having sex. The issue isn't that we make noise. It's that he is very...

Thanks guys...I'm going to post another question about a problem my husband is having...I'd love your input on that too...Thanks again. This is all so new and I want it to work so bad. There are so many kinks that need to be ironed out. I do have a bit of anxiety about being a "super hinge" I guess.

I'm a female in a vee relationship with two heterosexual men. Does anyone in the same situation have suggestions for me for Valentines Day? I want to be with both of them...I want to celebrate them and thank them for loving me and I want to do something romantic and special for them...but how do...