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I will add that my husband knew to not tell me by phone that he was falling in love with another woman. He knew he would need to be there for me and I am glad he was because i went through some dark times and if he had told me on the phone and then not been able to talk to me as often as I...

Reply to All All, I wanted to say thank you all for your advice. I have written a few incorrect statements that I need to correct here. So I also want to apologize, firstly to my husband for the incorrect statements and then to you. My husband did not fall in love shortly after starting out...

A new possibility I think I am going through the grieving process now. Grieving what our relationship was, what I thought it was, and what I thought it would become. I went through a pretty rough period of being shocked, angry, and depressed. I lost 5 lbs in one month and I lost hair. I...

Hi Everyone, My Name is Lionness. I am a 31 year old woman who has been married to my husband for 4 years. I had not heard about the poly thing before this summer. I was very happy living the monogamous lifestyle. My husband came home after a 2 month fieldstudy to tell me he was in love...

Firstly, Thank you all for your words of advice, your kind words and words that show the reality of the situation. Thank you for your condolences. It's nice to receive them, as I have not been able to talk to anyone about this before now. I have felt all alone in my situation. And it has...

Hi All, My name is Lionness. I am 31 and before July I was in a happy monogamous relationship with my husband of 3.5 years. He went on a 2 month field study and came back to me claiming he had been thinking about love and life for year. That he had fallen in love with another women, but...