Recent content by Lizzy30

Tks Galagirl! Your opinion is golden. I so believe "healing" is key. I was really getting into depression which is totally not healthy. I have absolutely no one to talk to about this except him and I feel that he is totally bias about it. I don't have a choice but to wait and see what happens...

I feel so guilty and responsible since this was my idea, my fantasy. We spoke a while ago and that went well. He asked about the situation so I told him, I've struggled about it for a while and I couldn't go on w/out telling him I want out. Now it's in him, not sure what to do but he knows I'm...

My man has been with his GF for about 5 months. Him and I have been together over 2yrs. It all began with my fantasy that became reality, my man having another woman. In the beginning it was a good situation, we all hooked up and got along fine but he went through NRE and I went through extreme...

Yes, I really do want out. I thought I was crazy because people were telling me to stick with it cause I'm already in it. In my heart this is not for me, after looking into everything that happened, I was not sold or in it 100% in the beginning so it makes sense that I want to revert back to my...

Ok, very hurtful to hear but I definitely understand. This is the reason, I'm out of our 3 way relationship and now it's split him and her the secondary and him and me the primary, I can swallow that a bit more. Tks!

Why should I stay? Everything you've said is basically correct. I did want a "pet" for my man. I got excited and carried away so ended up agreeing to a poly relationship. However, why should I stay in it and suck it up, I know I want me and my man only. I don't have any feeling for her anymore...

It has only been about 8 weeks and I'm over this poly life. I think it was started off very wrong, basically it was my fantasy/want bringing a chic in our relationship for sexually reasons. We were actively looking. Messed up thing was that he met her without me and slept with her that same...

Tks Magdlyn, great advice. I am actually not bi however we have all slept together twice (it was great). I definitely was avoiding guidelines bcz to me that is like restrictions. I believe that will only make them uncomfortable and cause problems for him and I. I love this man sooo much and I...

Well he actually suggested me having a boyfriend this morning, I'm not really into that tho

So I'm new to this poly world. My boyfriend (of over 2yrs) and I have talked about my "fantasy" (a gf for him) for a while. He finally met a girl. He met her and had sex with her that 1st night, spent the next day with her then told me that same night, we never keep things from each other. This...