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Just wanted to say, OP, that the story about you being so neglected on your birthday struck a chord with me. It sounds so painful. I'm...

A trial separation [for a defined period of time] sounds more and more reasonable. Leo is not in your face all the time and you can both...

A trial separation with firmer time lines sounds better. If she's neglecting you as a spouse, why would she do any better as FWB or...

Ok, I see if have cause a bit of discourse with unclear statements so hopefully this straightens it out a bit. Physically, I picked up...

I understand that, but i dont have to like it. And I guess to be a bit clearer my issue stems from his assertion/assumption that it is...

Divorce is in consideration, we picked up the paperwork not too long ago "just in case" but havent really made any moves towards filling...

I know its been some time so I wanted to give an update. The short version is Im pretty sure our marriage is done, not officially as of...

So I feel its probably a good point to re-solidify the fact that we arent officially poly yet. I am doing my best to navigate things in...

It's probably like 10-15 people, just close family. If she were gone we wouldn't be having dinner with her family. Between the 2 of us...

Anything is possible, but im quite sure she hadnt mentioned anything about the trip to her family. They dont even know that she's in a...

Pretty much like i said before. Doing some kind of egg/jelly bean hunt (depending on the weather) and baskets for the kids in the...

Just dropping a small update: I haven't brought up anything about Easter in favor of just accepting the change as is. Also, as a...

I was on Ok Cupid and Fetlife and honestly, there was a lot of crossover. I felt like the people I had the most in common with had both...

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In your shoes, I'd wait til Easter is closer, say a week out from the family plans, then ask if she's joining me and the kids, or if she...