Recent content by MellowMel

Hi Im Mel 30something from Philly but currently in SoCal for 5 years now. I love creating art, painting, drawing, cooking, baking, films, books, nature, history, science, sarcastic wit, deep thoughtful questions, and listening to people talk about their dreams (both their goals and the sleep...

Honestly i feel stupid for not being more logical about the hiding and lying. Again, I think it was me, the people pleaser (from a long line of people pleasers), and I foolishly held on because they both wanted it to work and that reassured me that we could fix it. Something that I've been...

Hi. Thank you for checking. Jesse uses he/they/she pronouns, and Jo uses she. Jo did the infidelity, and while it wasn't full-blown sex infidelity, it was both sexual and emotional betrayal. This was years ago and we've gotten to a point of forgiveness with that. But to be honest, I was...

Thank you for the reply, i think since weve been nesting partners for 7 years and even moved across the country together, its so hard to think of what a nesting V partnership would look like, but I feel like now I have guilt that I no longer want this, when this poly relationship was all I ever...

I (34f) am in a previously closed triad with my partner of 13 years (Jesse 34 nb/amab) and our girlfriend of 9 years (Jo 29f). We started pretty quickly, but we had sat down and agreed that our triad would be closed (me and Jesse offered to be open but Jo expressed how she wanted to be closed)...