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    Poly and Magick

    Great book....
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    Rings

    I like that ring, we have discussed the Claddagh with a stone. one color for my primary and his secondary and a different color for me and my secondary. Just have not found the right ones yet, still looking.
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    Rings

    We are also considering that as well. Just not a whole lot of thought has gone into what we would get and were we would put it.
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    Rings

    Tim, Thank you, I have just looked at that website. It does have some beautiful pieces. Mellsey
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    Rings

    Mark1npt, We are leaning more towards the distinctly matching bands that represent polyamory and our love for one another. We have not discussed the ceremony yet, it will just be a private commitment ceremony. I know we can not do anything legal, which is not fair, but is life.
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    Rings

    We really have not talked about what type of ceremony we will do, but yes it would be a group marriage and yes it would replace our mono wedding rings. That is one thing all four of us have agreed upon. When and what we will do is still undesided. I have been looking at the celtic rings and...
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    Rings

    Hello, my poly family are looking for "wedding" commitment rings. Does anyone have any idea or a design that would fit our poly life. Being two couples we already have one set of rings, but would like to replace them with one for all four of us that symbolizes our connection and commitments.
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    A warm hello from Tx

    SeventhCrow, That would be me. Ember, Welcome. I am in the same situation as you. I have been married 18 years and until recently have been mono. My husband and I were introduced to our couple through a mutual friend. After getting to know them a little we started discussing swinging...
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    This is new for me too, never been on anytype of forum before. All of this is new. The best...

    This is new for me too, never been on anytype of forum before. All of this is new. The best advice I can give you is don't hold back any feelings and comunicate with each and everyone of your poly family. Our quad has been through some pretty rough times, and most of the time it was one of us...
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    New Relationship Difficulties

    I am glad that you have gotten this worked out. You are so right, Polyamory is not very easy. Just when you think all is great, something always comes up. But at the same time it is worth all the hard times you have to go through to have the feeling of completeness you get when you are with...
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    Lemondrop, welcome to the forum, it has really helped me out on a few things. It is really nice...

    Lemondrop, welcome to the forum, it has really helped me out on a few things. It is really nice to have others you can talk to about our lifestyle. This is all fairly new to my husband and I, but am very glad it has come about. Our quad (mfmf) has been through some rough times just in a short...
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    New Relationship Difficulties

    Lemondrop, The first and formost thing you need to do is set all four of you down and discuss what is bothering you. i have been there. When our quad started, we had no idea what we were in store for. We have spent a lot of time talking and getting through situations just like this. Be...
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    Coming out

    Alhena, Thanks for your response. I don't care who knows that I love two guys and that one is married to another person, I want to tell everyone. It is society who frowns on us and I do not know how he (my boss) will take it. I have to work for this guy for a living and he is about my age, and...
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    Coming out

    I have a question for anyone who can help. history first - in a quad mfmf - two married couples together with each other in a poly relationship. This is all new to all of us. question - How do you deal with society and people you have daily interactions with? Example: my boss has noticed a...
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    Separation anxiety

    Every weekend my husband and I get together with our poly couple. Now keep in mind both couples have two children each, so there is a total of 8 of us, and our children do not know our lifestyle, so any affection or togetherness is hiden. We have made it a rule that there is no "intimacy"...
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