Recent content by mhjb2801

I left poly because i was in the case of wanting kids and none of my partners wanted kids. One went as far as to get sterilized during our relationship. I dated mono with someone who was open to poly knowing there was a chance of only being mono. Now flash forward 2 kids later we're poly and...

thanks had plans for it before i went back to poly i just always liked it...

Well, after reading the replies and talking with both my husband and other poly friends, the only way we'd continue is if there was a meeting of the minds, so to speak. I'd have to meet with the girlfriend to see if she understands and is okay with everything, and maybe having it explained from...

I discussed this with my husband and a few poly friends, who are mixed on whether to give him a chance or not, if he works his stuff out, because he's still new to this and seems like this is his thing. This is the 1st time he's been dishonest. And as I pointed out, the whole girlfriend thing...

So, about 2 months ago, I met someone. Things were going great. This was their 1st poly involvement. Things went really good for a couple of weeks, but I knew he was having issues with the whole "she's married but dating" thing. I gave him some space to work things out. Fast forward 3 weeks of...

i can just share what i did with my husband when it come to the whole poly thing. We were fans of the show Big Love and i asked him what his thoughts on a lifestyle like that was... being the awesome husband he is said he didn't feel it was fair for the women to only have 1 man to share. we also...

So started dating a new guy and M is totally cool with it and even helps with dinner so can go out earlier then after kids are down. New guy JW at 1st seemed really cool with everything and enjoyed it but is now making comments about how it's something to get use to as he's never dated a married...

So after a few years away I'm going back to poly. Thought i could do the mono things and tried with my husband but discussed poly and how it could be something better for us. well after more then a few years of talking we're doing the whole poly thing, or trying too... We have a few good laughs...

Welcome, I'm in a somewhat same situation with my husband but he's open to going poly himself and we just now started the whole dating thing with poly after talking about it for 5 years because i wanted to make sure he was comfortable and knew everything there was to know as well as the fact...