Recent content by Monowife67

I appreciate that. They've been seeing each other for a few months now, and I do get that it's still new and exciting. I haven't put any limits on him in regards to him spending time with her. I can see how much happier he is. I'm working on adjusting my mindset, accepting that our relationship...

Thanks. It's a work in progress. My most recent struggle is mentally separating myself from his other relationship. He was with her last night, and was super lovey dovey with me this morning. I understand that it's most likely him expressing appreciation for accepting him and supporting his...

Hello. I'm a mono 44F, married to a poly 44M. I wanted to reach out to the community for support, and kinship. My husband has a girlfriend who I respect and like. I'm, by nature, monogamous. Still navigating through emotions and the shifts necessary to make this work.

Brutal honesty My husband and I are in the beginning stages of adapting to what is now a mono/poly marriage. Initial conversations were very emotional, and we weren't lacking a connection or intimacy withing our relationship, but his nature is polyamorous. When I was finally able to hear him...

Communication is key In my marriage, I am the mono, he is the poly. It took years before we were able to rationally discuss the matter without me freaking out. We're still new to him pursuing this lifestyle, but we're in a good place right now. It's not easy to just up and accept that the...

My husband and I are in the beginning stages of moving into a poly relationship. He is poly, I am completely not. Over the years talks about the subject have not gone well, but I finally listened to his side, and we've been openly communicating about how this kind of things works. He has been...

I am in basically the same boat. I was in denial about the way he's wired, so after years of hoping it would go away, we have been having discussions that it won't. So now what? He doesn't have any prospects lined up, we've only just started scratching the surface of how this is supposed to...

My husband and I have been together for 9 years, married for 6 months. He is poly, I am 100% monogamous. I am finally accepting that he is the way he is, and I want him to be happy, which means letting him pursue sexual relationships outside of our marriage. Where do we start? How does he meet...