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    hello from a hesitant polyam in Kentucky

    this hits the nail pretty squarely on the head i think. i'm not totally sure what my boundaries are yet. first relationship is a hard comparison--we were long distance (~2 hour drive) for awhile, then life led us to the same town, so trying to figure out scheduling together was always just sort...
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    hello from a hesitant polyam in Kentucky

    i suppose that's accurate. i don't know that "giving" and "getting" are very good words here but they're the ones i chose so i'll roll with them, ha. here's where i guess the "giving and getting" language breaks down a little, because i'm not sure this is precisely how i feel. i think polyamory...
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    hello from a hesitant polyam in Kentucky

    i've been polyamorous since early 2023, and in that time i've been in two relationships and also dated a fair bit. in my first relationship, i always joked with my partner that she could get a date by walking out onto her front porch and whispering into the wind that she was available for the...
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    polyam guy looking for [whatever]

    hello all. i think i'm in the right part of the forum but if i'm misreading, i apologize. i'm a 40-something straight cis male in central kentucky, looking for connections of any kind. i have one regular partner, who i started dating recently and am still working to define what the relationship...
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    Poly-Friendly Christians?

    i'm a believer and don't expect that to change (my beliefs have evolved considerably over the years but i have a great deal of security in where i stand) but i learned a long time ago how personal one's beliefs are. i'm unafraid to share my faith with anyone who wants to know, but proselytizing...
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    Poly-Friendly Christians?

    much appreciated! my tendency regarding faith discussions is to follow it when it develops naturally rather than to be proactive in starting it, but i appreciate anyone who makes me feel like i can talk about it candidly without backlash.
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    Older...

    i'm 44 and i feel this deeply. i'm a reasonably handsome guy--average, i think, but i take pretty good care of myself, and i've been drinking milk--and on paper i think i'm a pretty desirable partner. (my go-to joke is that unfortunately, women don't date guys on paper, unless they have a...
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    Poly-Friendly Christians?

    brand new here, but i fall into the seemingly microscopic sliver in the middle of the polyam/christian venn diagram. i don't know that i'd say i'm "out," but i also wouldn't call myself closeted about it. very few people at church know about my lifestyle, but i'm a fairly private person who...
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    hello from a hesitant polyam in Kentucky

    good afternoon everyone. first time posting here. i'm a 40-something poly fella who was monogamous until just a few years ago. finding polyamory felt like the key to some kind of happiness for the back 9 of my life following a divorce. my first poly relationship was perfectly lovely until it...
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