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I will add that at this point she is saying all of the right things about wanting to continue to spend a lot of time with me and our daughter, and me alone. I’ve made it clear I need regular date nights if she’s going to go out on regular date nights with him. I’m worried about weekends, we’ll...

Yes, it has been very challenging even before she discovered that she is polyamorous. I did not like the relationship from Day 1, and actually saw it for what it was way before she did and called it out for what it was. She was lying to herself about what it was so there was no way she could...

We’ve had very candid discussions about how each of us have changed since we were first married. As noted, it was the 2nd marriage for both of us. I was close to 40 and she was in her early 30s, so it wasn’t like two 20-somethings. Nonetheless, we have both changed and find ourselves in...

Hi all, Thanks for all of the responses, sincerely. I just read the post in the articles section on platonic polyamory, that’s pretty much exactly how she describes the relationship she has and wants with this other dude. I’m not sure if that changes anyone’s opinion of anything. I’m still...

Thank you for the reply and for all of the advice and knowledge. I have never heard of the term “poly bombed”, and obviously a lot of this is very new to me. There’s a lot for me to think about here. I appreciate it.

Hello Everyone, I just found this forum and it seems like a wonderful place, so I just decided to join. Here is my situation: my wife (46f) and I (51m) have been married for over 11 years, and have been together for almost 14 years. It is the second marriage for both of us. I have three older...