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Thank you again notarobot! I have certainly been looking at my relationship in a different way these past few days.

Thank you notarobot! I don't think i saw the other post but you are right that people have been very supportive and friendly. It all helps towards me and my wife making an informed decision.

Yeah i get what you mean thats really helpful actually. This is just the kind of affirmation i need really as it would be a big step for us both. Thank you!

Thank you for the advice Greenacres I will certainly bear this in mind.

You have helped my friend!

Thank you again for your advice I very much appreciate it! You have given me a lot to think about. Regards Cake

To answer your questions 1) I really don't know how she would feel although both of us believe she is very attracted to myself and has displayed jelaousy towards my wife when describing our love life to her. 2/3) We have talked through it and she says she would be happy for me to sleep with...

I am very attracted to some people but fear she may feel intimidated by the girls i would pick. I very much understand your point though and it is something to discuss with her. Thank you!

Thank you for your reply PollyNyma! In all honesty I am attracted to the person that she wants me to sleep with but other than instant gratification i'm not entirely sure that I will get a lot out of it myself. The good thing is she isn't forcing me to do it so I know If needs be I can back...

I have to admit i find this scary. I don't know if I'm just frightened of change or not.

Hi! I just want to introduce myself! I'm a 34 year old male and basically looking for advice after my wife wants me to be polyamoristic and I'm not 100% sure. I posted my situation in another thread but not sure if it was the right place. As a currently monogamous man please don't judge me. I...

Hello, my wife and I have been together for over six years now and married for four years. We have two wonderful children together. Our love life is also wonderful despite our jobs meaning we work different hours. Recently my wife has spoke of wanting me to sleep with other women and come back...