Recent content by neopoly

Hi Thank for caring. It is not as bad as it could seem like. And I get support from a specialist. But my ex-boyfriend/rapist is just super annoying lately. Also, I am not forced to work with my rapist girlfriend. She is ten years younger and she attended one of our long-term courses. I was...

It just all came back to me now. So I think there is not so much support for me and I should let it go.

We had one fight about about it. It originally started as workshop about conflicts and Cubanian crisis. Than it went to conflicts in general. And I just saw my rape story there - that the rapist acted as some nations or armies do. And than somehow we started fighting because I compared rape to...

Ok you are so specific, thank you Magdlyn. I get body language and world from them like Bill is more about body language and jokes and Ginni is sometimes really sweet. I was raped recently and they were supportive for some time, but that I was too much I guees. I am still sometimes depressive...

Thank you for at least one little bit hopeful answer. I also kind of think he could change his mind, but maybe I am just dreaming. About dating just Ginny, I would really like to. But I have this quite strict “policy” about women, that I don't fantasize or fall too much till they are really...

Ok guys you are probably right about not dating them. But i just cant stop being in love them even platonicaly. Another option is maybe just stop seeing them and it is really hard to do. I just dont know how to manage this situation without ending in total disapointment.

Hi, I am in poly triad with two bi boys. We've live together for 10 years. Our relationship is open so we also date other people. I am also bi (maybe pan). My girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago. Recently I found out that I really like one couple from my work (Ginny and Bill). They...

Hello all of you, thank you for your responses. It helps. I maybe actually have a "kid in a candy store syndrom" or I simply have it. Even if it seems to be nice and good working - having all these relationships - I found out, that I actually feel a lot tired. And my primary or nesting...

Hello, I know this question is really individual and depends on many different things, but I want to ask how many partners/lovers do you think is ok to have? Do you have any methods or tips how to know if are you preoccupied with relationships or how do you deal with a situation when do you...

Hi thanks for yours comments and advices. And thanks for editing Magdlyn. I don't like veto either. I must admit, that Mr. Green asked for some specification. So we have something like preexisting veto agreement. Actually, I once said to him, that I wouldn't accept if he has something with...

I have a problem with one women. Half year ago she saud that she dont want me in her life. It was after her romance with one of my partners. Long story. She thinks I am a terrible person and wrong polyamoric, feminist, human, whatever. My other partner mr. Green (we are together for a half of...

Hi, so I am now happy in a new relationship. It started quite slowly but now it seems like we want to see each other one a week, it is quite nice relationship on many levels. We text quite a lot and keep contact. He defined himself like in open relationship, but used to date friends and keep...

Thanks for answer kdt. Yes, it takes me time to figure it all out. I broke up with my female lover Annie, she wrote that she has no romantical feelings for me. We had beautiful sex and I always thought that we love each other in same way...but I fell more like she begins to value our...

Hi, thank you. Maybe I should probably rather write this in "blog section" because it is so long and not focused on one issue... So...i still feel melancholy or pain because of Mr. Flower. We haven't text for a while and I miss him. At the same time I know, that it is not such a good idea to...

Mr. Flower thing Yes, it is a tricky situation. I am actually really scared by him. It could make my life unstable, it could hurt his wife and it could also hurt my boyfriends. It could mean so much mess. But it is clear that I love the idea as much as I am scared by it. But this fear is not...