Recent content by newpoli

I appreciate the insight everyone! It was just a thought I had and I suppose time will tell a bit more. :)

A bit about me first. I am 33, female, single (meaning in this case not married) and exploring poly. I am in my 2nd poly relationship and in both instances have dated men who are married. I fully realize that my experience is extremely limited and so I have a question for those who are more...

I appreciate the concern ladies. I was hesitant at first and told him so. I told him that I was not sure that I wanted him in my home. He said that was fine. We could meet somewhere for dinner or to take a walk. It was completely up to me. He only suggested it because he knew that I liked to...

Another place to look for groups in your area is here: http://www.polygroups.com/ I met my current partner at our local group, but ultimately he found me on OKC and that's how we really got to know each other. Good luck!

So date number one went well. I texted J when I got home to say thank you for the date and that I had a good time. We started trading a lot of texts. He asked me f there would be a second date and I said that I would very much like that. We discussed what to do and he agreed to come my direction...

J contacted me via OKC. I realized that I actually had met him before at a local MeetUp for poly folks. I had remembered him because he was always very welcoming and I somehow ended up speaking to him at each event I attended. I didn't recall a strong attraction, but that I did have a bit of...

Hello everyone. I'm still fairly new to poly. My first poly relationship ended in complete disaster with not only the loss of what I thought was a loving relationship, but also of what I thought was a supportive caring friend. Several months later I have recently entered into a new poly...

I appreciate the support everyone. I have been wondering if there was something else going on. It just seems like a complete 180 from even just a few days before. I have gotten an outpouring of support from my friends and family (although not all of them know about the relationship being...

Well this sucks So, I talked to Z on Sunday night. I told him that while I understood that he needed to be with his family a the time I felt swept aside, unimportant and like my time with him got intruded upon again. He asked me what else he was supposed to do? And I said, there probably wasn't...

I don't feel like he is. I texted him last night asking if I could see/talk to him today. I told him I was not feeling secure in our relationship. He said he wasn't sure what time they were getting back from a day trip they're taking today but we could talk and he would try to come by. He said...

It is an important issue for the family. I understand that. It is just that there have been many such issues lately and no attempt to try to give me a little more time to make up for the time that I'm not getting. They are all understandable situations that are important (a cancelled lunch...

I have tried very hard not to have expectations. He has told me that I can count on him, but I really haven't felt like I could lately. I am not currently in any other relationships. I would be open to them, just haven't found one. I am new to poly and have been wanting to make sure that I was...

Well and I'm sure he won't reschedule his time with her tomorrow to maybe spend some time with me. I plan on telling him how I feel. I am getting a little frustrated and am running out of understanding. I know that they will be figuring out the finances together and I'm sure as the top earner...

I know the furnace is more important. We live in Minnesota, heat is very important. I guess I'm just struggling tonight.

I'm not entirely sure how to start this. I am just so upset right now. My boy friend and I were supposed to go out tonight and since we seem to spend the nights in a lot I made plans for us to go out to dinner and then over to a friends (who he doesn't really know, but I want him to) for games...