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If she decides that’s what would make her happy I would be OK with it.

She is only interested in dating other women. We’ve had multiple conversations about it and she is sure that is what she wants.

Yes, we discussed her list and this girl is not on it. She is a gig worker with her and they only see each other occasionally. They are both performers. No, she is not on Feeld yet she is only interested in women. We’ve had multiple lengthy conversations and she has told me she is only...

To be clear, they are gig workers that occasionally work together. They are both performers. To answer your question yes, we had a lengthy conversation about her and has now stated multiple times that she is good with it.

It does make some sense. Are you suggesting that I just first tell her that I’m in an open relationship and then ask her out a different day? If so, I’m glad you mentioned that, because my intention was to do both the next time I saw her. Just for context, I just met her recently, so we only...

Thank you. I will definitely look those up.

Thank you for all the great questions. Yes, I am a man. My wife and I had dated the same woman. It is not a closed relationship, since she is with another partner, as well. My wife and I discussed dating separately and decided that it would be something we would like to do, as well. My wife...

I appreciate your replying. However, let’s not get caught up on the specific words that I’m using, more so the question that I am asking. I do understand that each person will have different needs and desires and each relationship has its own unique dynamic. I’m certainly not trying to find a...

Hello everyone, My wife and I have been open to the polyamory lifestyle for a while and had a third in our relationship for the last couple of years. We have since decided to open up our relationship further, now allowing me to pursue other women for a kitchen-table type relationship. We’re...

Thank you for that. I would love to have more than a friendship with our third and truly make make her our girlfriend. However, you are right-- either a new arrangement will have to be made or she will need to break up with her current boyfriend. Otherwise, we are encouraging her to be...

What I meant by having no luck was that we never found anyone that we were able to feel comfortable with, as well as make any meaningful connection. We had attended several swinger parties and had some fun, but never had sex with anyone at those events. I briefly tried to create an online...

Hello. I honestly only use that word out of slang. I mean absolutely nothing derogatory by that word. Believe me, she is 100% woman.

Thank you. You have hit the nail right on the head. When it first started, I don’t think any of us had the intention of going this far. It’s crazy how spending that much time and intimacy with another person can develop real feelings. I hate when that happens lol Our third was actually the...

Yep, that’s pretty much where my head is at. I hope you’re wrong, as well. But if I’m being honest with myself, that’s probably going to be the outcome. It really sucks, because I do really like this girl. It just feels like it wasn’t meant to be. My wife is still really attached to her and...

Yes, I’m out here in California. Okay, that’s good to know. I’m gonna have to do some hunting, for sure. A unicorn is exactly what we’re looking for. That’s what our current third is and I know it’s nearly impossible to get the dynamic to match up perfectly. I’m just trying to decide if it’s...