I'm still working on writing up what happened, I'm also in the middle of moving so it's taking a bit. I'll read everyone's responses soon as well, thanks <3
I don't even know where to begin, but things with my situation went horribly wrong and I really need some outside perspective from other poly people. I've stayed away from pretty much everything because I've been in such disarray. The short version is that I feel like the poly friend I confided...
Oh, I'm sorry! I'm a trans male, my wife is trans female, and my friend is also a trans male. For more info I met my friend about 2018. My wife and he both know about each other so there's no secrets there.
(I edited it to change the pronouns to make more sense 😅)
My wife and I have been married for 10 years. She recently came out as polyamorous, within the last 2 years. At first I told her I was monogamous, and we both agreed to respect that, no problems.
After some time, I've done self reflection, and I like the idea of dedicated poly relationships. I...