Recent content by OneUncagedBird

Greetings... welcome, welcome, welcome! Lol, couldn't resist. Hope you like it here. It is fun and challenging and very informative and a little voyeuristic to be sure. I love to watch everyone's journey and learn about them and myself. Hope it will be the same for you.;)

honesty I look at honesty and integrity as fundamental in a long term relationship. It allows me to sleep at night and gives the other person the right to make true, informed decisions about our relationship and whether or not they are up to whatever is going on. It gives a measure of trust...

Very Interesting wow, I find all these varying situations and choices to be extremely interesting and thought provoking here. I have a lover now and we use condoms, but that is because we have not been tested and there is no way in hell I am going to either catch something or get pregnant. I...

well done... Well done sour girl! I enjoyed your comments and find them to be both true and entertaining. Thanks for the thoughts!

Ok, I am trying to figure out all the abbreviations and lingo and keep up. It is fun and challenging, but I am at a loss. Someone please tell me, what the hell is BDSM, and what is pansexual? And what does it mean for someone to be in a master/slave relationship? Everyone on here seems to...

I agree.. I agree with Redpepper. If what you are doing is talking to get other people's perspectives and help you better understand yourself and what you want, that is healthy. I do that I often won't even know what I want until I talk it out with someone and have the opportunity to express...

You are anxious... I think you are anxious because you want your gf and M to get the sex part over with. No one is unhappy in this situation but you. You love and care for her but she has to be allowed to make her own choices and in all reality her own mistakes. If they do end up asking her...

That sucks! It is so hard to make sacrifices for someone when you think the state of your relationship is one way and it ends up being something totally different. I feel for you, because it sounds like he is being very selfish in all this. Not only is he willing and ready to let you make all...

I am happy for you. It is amazing what open communication and self examination can do. You can get through anything by having those two things. Congrats. Good luck. I'm glad you like her so much!:)

he he Just had to say hello, absolutely love the screen name! Welcome to our world!

so amazing... that is so cool that you were able to finally be yourself and get what you want, that often eludes most of us.....;)

welcome.... Welcome! I am sure you will find this a place of openness, much advice and a place to further cement and understand yourself!

At this point, all he wants is sex. So, that is all he considers you good for. If he was ready for something more he would go for it. Guys generally go for what they want healthy or unhealthy. It is usually pretty straightforward and there are no subtle innuendoes or feelings like in the...

I am curious if anyone has ever had the issue, and what they have done about it, of having 2 people who are interested in being in a relationship with them and they are only attracted or interested in one? This must have come up sometime.....:cool:

Cautiousness is best when it comes to huge decisions like this. And, unfortunately, self protection! I know how that feels.