Recent content by Pa_Ulla

I'll check out HER..... Thank you so much for sharing! Totally agree with ENM being misunderstood..... thats even after explaining I don't do ONS- the guys still think they can persuade me... WTF - it's insulting and so annoying. And correct - just some fooling around when I was younger...

Yay! Glad to hear you are out there..... not just me alone ...

Yes I see what you mean... I am on Field as well ... (which I like in general and met quite a few interesting guys there .... one ghosted me after we had two hilarious, amazing dates.... super bizarre - but he just got a divorce.... anyways.... other story :-) ... I had lots of couples reach...

Thank you Kevin, Alluvion and Dottie! I like what you say " after "trying on" several words" and "Feel them. Own them. Know you're not by yourself. : )" That is awesome!!!! Thank you!!!!

Hi Dottie, Thanks so much for your words of encouragement. I am still very much in the closet as I am myself not quite sure what is going on with me.... or maybe I do know but am confused about it..... I might need a bit of time to order and understand my feelings, wants and needs.

Hello everyone :-) Just found my courage to write and introduce myself and ultimately ..... my burning question. I am in an ENM (F/M) relationship.... and we just decided to open up a little while ago. I have been on same dates (found the guys through online dating) and most have been fun...