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My partner has decided that he would rather try this new dynamic than break up without even trying. It's a trial run. My friends still aren't supportive. They act weird when I talk about it. So I have stopped talking about myself.

Things have improved quite a bit. But I am still worried. Worried that any minute, he's going to leave me. That I will be too much for him to handle. We are both doing our own research separately. So far we have agreed on boundaries and are still together working things out. I know breaking...

Yes, it was surprising. He is open to learning and we are both learning by reading articles and experiences. We have talked about boundaries. He has set them and they are in my confort zone. Things are going really well. It was weird but we were 100% transparent. We talked about sex and...

Thank you. This is a great idea. I will do this. I'm better at communicating through writing anyway. He was safe.. I returned home. We discussed. We ended up breaking up but he's bargaining right now. Thinking that maybe he could let me go on dates but then he changes his mind over and over...

First of all, I appreciate the advice. Second of all, update. My partner felt like something was wrong and he asked me if I've been talking to someone. I told him I have been. We got into a huge argument and we both walked out. I drove around until I called a friend and she said I could stay...

I came out as bi/pan a long time ago and that was easy for me. But I began seeing patterns in my behavior during long term relationships. I would be unfaithful 2 years in. I recently came out as polyamorous once I started reading many articles on it. The REASON I began looking into it was...

I (F28) have been in many long-term relationships before discovering that I am poly. Three days ago I have finally discovered this so I came out to my partner. It went badly. My monogamous partner went through a whirlwind of emotions. I feel so alone. Even surrounded by my friends and my...