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The agreements had be arranged prior to the meeting on tuesday. My partner has met him along time ago through table tennis club, but nothing had happened as far as im aware between the two of them untill we discussed rules and boundaries. It has taken alot for me to get to this stage and now i...

Hi all, Another update. After long discusion we came to an agreement and put some ground rules in place the major one being - tell me when you have arranged a meeting. The new problem is i lost my temper after finding out my partner met a man in a dress that just covers her bum for lunch i use...

Hi just an up date, after hrs of talking and heart to heart my other half has told me its not about an emotional connectiin its just sex witb a variety of partners. Does this come under the poly banner?

Hi thankyou for rhe helpful reasponses. What am i limely to experiance emotionally on the first occasion. Do people feel its right for them and then change after a while? I want very muh for my partner to be happy and if this is what she wants then i need to support her as best i can.

Hi, my partners affair was with a woman. Since finding information out the hardway and spoken to the love of my life she has said she wants to open the relationship up and has now said she is interested in experiencing another male other than myself.

I dont have an issue with her being with another man, it has always been a fantasy. Although obviously i would not be present on this occassion. Im looking for advice on how to handle the emotions. I will be told when the meetinv will take place and i am unsure how to handle the emotion that i...

I trust her with my life and i dont have issues with the affair makes it easier as it was with a women. My gf new foynd desires are aimed at a male considerably older than herself and me. The issue is that i dont seek out or desire to open myself up to a third party on my side as i goes...

Hi all, Im new to the site and have found the info and comments helpful. My partner of 7 years had an affair which i found out 2 weeks ago. She has now told me she wants an open relationship and wants to feel free. I lo e her more than i ever thought possible we are an unsinkable ship, and...