Recent content by phantazmagoria

Thank you everyone for weighing in on my question, especially Bluebird. You guys are awesome!! We are going to ask our girlfriend this weekend to "marry" us! So excited!!

Hello, everyone! I was wondering if I could get suggestions from you guys! My longterm poly triad is meeting with an attorney on Friday to discuss the legalities of having such a relationship, family planning, estate planning, medical options, buying a house together, raising kids together, and...

Hello, Poly World! Thanks for reading my thread, and hopefully responding! "Poly-fidelitous" triad here, 3 year relationship, living together, super happy, planning a future together. Living in North Carolina. Here are a few questions that hopefully someone can help us with! 1. Girlfriend...

For you all that do have kids ... why did you decide to have them? What was your motivation behind that? I'm just wondering about the mindset people have when making these decisions.

Whoa. I really, really appreciate everyone's responses here. You've given me the grim reality check. I'm not sure who would want kids after reading these! hahaha. But I know what you all say is true stuff. We are not rushing into things, for sure. Thanks!!

Well, since this has been weighing on our relationship, I have started to wonder about my life stages. Like all existential and all "what IS is all about?" kind of thoughts. I've changed as far as looking at other babies and baby things, and thinking they are adorable. I never did that before...

Hey, poly world! I'm seeking advice from like minded individuals. Quick background: me and hubby, married for 12 years me hubby and girlfriend, together for 2.5 years, living together as a triad. Cutting to the chase ... The hubby and I had never wanted kids when it was just the two of us. He...

I thought this was funny to read. I have the same issues. Good luck in your mattress search!!

Yes... I should clarify ... We have been in this triad relationship for a year and a half. We already have shared chores, grocery bills and closet space. Basically running two households. Moving into one household seems smart. But cramped? Thank you very much for your reply!! :)

Hello out there! I hope everyone is doing well!! My relationship is going very well. (Poly triad: hubby, wife, girlfriend - each date each other.) Our girlfriend is on the verge of moving in with us. Very big, happy step! I have a series of questions that I'll number for organization purposes...

I know we could never ever be the parents she would need us to be. I think she'll have to have a "baby's daddy" be that a husband or boyfriend or whatnot. My biggest fear is that she'll find a husband that is not okay with her being poly, and never seeing her again. My heart breaks every time...

You guys always seem to help, for the most part, with all-things-poly, so I'm going to tell you what's going on with my poly right now, in hopes that you all might give helpful opinions. Right now, we are 4 relationships: Wife, Husband, Girlfriend Wife, Girlfriend Wife, Husband Husband...

Hahaha.... Yeah ... to penetrate while eating pussy. Interesting concept, but really hard to actually use! It's this: http://www.amazon.com/California-Exotics-Accommodator-Oral-Stimulator/dp/B002JINP1C

I am happy to report that we talked. We are aware of this being a "thing" with us. We both understand that we have to sometimes mean halfway. We definitely LOVE having sex with each other. We had amazing sex the other night and learned something new about each other. We bought a new dildo, the...