PolyCuriousDude

I was raised in a very strict religion where even thinking about anything sexual or sensual would send a boy straight to hell. I got married in early 20s, most likely to safely enjoy this side of being human My wife and I both slowly deconverted (thank god) before having kids and have since raised our little happy and healthy heathens to adulthood and looking for what's next. We both carry very different levels of religious sexual trauma and differing desires to heal that trauma, so monogamy has been the worst part of our marriage, at least from my perspective as the one who wants to expand my views of love and fully heal the child who was traumatized around the sensual without losing a loved life partner who has been with me in the trenches. I joined this forum to meet others on this journey and to learn more about where we may fit into this far more sane and healthy world.