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That was a good read. We definitely struggled through a lot of things mentioned in the article for the first 6 to 8 months. I believe we are on a much healthier path now.

I've actually used Reddit quit a bit, but feel like it can be a rather toxic place. I wanted to give another place a try, and so far I'm enjoying it here. A lot of people on reddit tend to jump on Jill really harshly and I don't feel like that's fair with strangers not knowing the entire...

I hear you on a lot of these things. It's hard to get it all out in text sometimes. To answer a bulk of your reply, the three of us did not begin things ethically and did not do any prep work before the relationship began. There were big issues that we have worked through and are continuing to...

I brought it up with Jill recently and would love to talk to Jack about it. It's his (I'm not sure if boundary is quite the right word) wish? I want to talk to him about it maturely without setting whatever off has him wanting that boundary. I'm not even sure it would set him off. It's just...

I've been the third in a triad for over a year now. There's kind of been something I've been bothered about and I'm not sure how to appropriately approach it with my two partners. They are nesting partners. (I'll call them Jack and Jill.) I am currently solo. We've kind of fallen into a routine...