Recent content by PolyinMT

I can only confirm what others have mentioned: * talk it out with my husband and/or a close friend * clean (this works to work off a good mad as well) * go for a walk / exercise * refocus on something completely unrelated to what is worrisome to me

Evolving

Lots and lots of conversation is what will help. I honestly can't say what finally helped my husband to be okay with it. He struggled for a bit. (Maybe I should suggest again that he join the forum). If my husband would ask me why I desire a woman I would answer... For the same reasons you...

Has she completely checked out of the marriage? If so, that sucks and you are right. There is no resolution cause she's not trying. A relationship can't function if only half of the parties involved are present and working on it.

The reasoning she's providing you sounds odd to me. Could she be grasping at anything and everything to avoid simply saying she will not accept you having the power to tell her she has to end her relationship with the boyfriend? You want her to be happy, healthy and fulfilled. She should want...

Operation

Interesting to think about. I would say I'm E3 maybeeee a little E4.

Hello! I've read your post and all the great responses. I wasn't going to add anything but I keep thinking about your situation so I decided to leave my thoughts for you... * Your feelings are always valid and important. Any partner should treat them as such. * When you felt loved from your...

novel

Hello! I was going to suggest Okcupid and lots of patience.

Sounds to me that you handled the situation nicely.

I have to agree with some of the above posts. It seems like you might be putting some unnecessary pressure on your husband if he's to fill you in on all the details afterwards. It could also be taking away from the experience and making it feel less intimate for him. Also, it's not your...

Hello! Lots going on but I think it gets down to a few important points. *He's a parent now. Priorities change. He has to think in regards to what is safe and comfortable for your son. *Expectations that he be present when spending time with you and your son is not unreasonable...

Men cleaning, cooking and/or being a good dad. So completely sexy.

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