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    cold feet?

    :^/ I'm afraid if I say anything it will embarrass her, upset her and push get away; which isn't what I want.
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    cold feet?

    Found a girl that really clicks with both hubby and i. For us, a triad would be ideal, and I really like the way this is going. . But she's moving (emotionally) too fast for me. We really don't know each other at all and she is saying she loves me (I'm going to assume the same way you love...
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    yup. still frustrated :'(

    hmm As far as my hubby being a liar goes, I met her before him. I explained we're polyamourous, never monogamous. In detail. I think she's trying to change him. But I think him not reinforcing his intent is the same as leading on. I don't think he's lying because she knows he isn't monogamous...
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    yup. still frustrated :'(

    yup I'm pretty sure you're right. I've even actually said that to a friend of mine that I don't think she can be happy in a world where she pretends her bf isn't happily married. But I keep hoping she'll mature with time since this is her first experience with polyamoury. For now I'm just going...
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    yup. still frustrated :'(

    Ok, so I kinda posted a bit about this before. ..but I was frustrated because my metemore (spelling? Pronunciation? Origin of word? ) wants nothing to do with me. I established this is common and normal, and decided to move on. . But she continues to say she wants friendship with me; and even...
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    I'm Autumn

    I have a husband who has a girlfriend :) that makes us a "vee" right? :D
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    to be frustrated or not to be frustrated

    :) No, it's not a must. I met her and introduced her to him, thinking we are friends. So maybe I'm offended she's not interested in my friendship, but that's no reason for my husband to not have a happy healthy relationship with this nice girl
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    to be frustrated or not to be frustrated

    ok. thank you Ok. You're right. Just in my head, his girlfriend is instantly my family abs should therefore treat me that way. .but you're totally spot on. I guess she's not the only one with new things to get used to! Thanks for your insight ♡♡♡
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    to be frustrated or not to be frustrated

    So my husband recently got a new girl friend. She's new to polyamoury and has a lot of mono behaviors. ..she gets jealous easily, etc... any ways...I figured she'd calm down with time since she knows what she's getting into and new things take time. .that's not REALLY what's getting to me. .she...
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