Recent content by polypus

Reply To me, the idea of morality is that which enhances our lives, versus that which causes destruction. Lies and dishonesty are destructive, and that includes the lies we tell ourselves.

Being outed. My biggest problem however is that none of our other friends or family knew what we were doing. A few years ago she changed jobs and is now working at the same small company I have worked at for the past 20 years. When she told me about the guy and New Zealand I asked her not to...

What's Appropriate? Sahaya, let me say I think you are insightful, a quality I seem to be lacking at the moment. My wife and I talked very little about the poly lifestyle after her live in boyfriend left. We finally had to ask him to go because he became a deadbeat and depended on us for...

Hello everyone I'm Polypus (Darren). I've been married to a poly for 23 years. We have both messed around with a couple in years past and my wife has had a live in boyfriend for awhile. Neither of us has practiced poly (or anything accept monogamy) in over ten years. Now she want's to get back...