Recent content by pursuitofhappyness

I can appreciate that. I was too against the relationship starting up again. This woman is married. Her husband also experienced much of what I did. We both felt neglected and overlooked. It was a very hard thing to go through. I just don't want to be opening another door that will lead me down...

Thanks, everyone, for your replies. I wanted to respond to a couple of things. First of all, he has known this woman for 6 years. He has always been attracted to her, and they have always shared a connection. Second, he completely flew off the handle when I told him that I looked at his...

I agree... but Thanks for the reply. I agree that a newer relationship should be full of energy and fun. However this is a person that he was involved with before, and we separated over his relationship with her. He lost all perspective on our marriage and family. She came first. They stopped...

I am in a poly marriage. I know I shouldn't have read it, but I opened Facebook to get on my own account, and found that my husband's page was open. His messages were there to read, so I did. I didn't like what I found. I read messages he has been sharing with his gf, and they are so over the...

Hello all... I have stumbled upon this site in pursuit of finding some help and advice. Let me first introduce myself. I am a female, who is in a poly relationship with my husband of 11 years. We started Poly about 2 years ago, and it was a decision in the beginning I felt was almost forced on...