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Single bi poly female here.... I couldn't agree more with the other posters. Your pics give me nothing. As far as I can tell, you like lingerie and the two of you like taking pics while sitting on the toilet. There are no real pics there. Not even of the two of you in the same pic...

this!!

LMAO Kevin!!

I am atheist, so bare with me...but aren't there multiple men mentioned in the bible with more than one wife? It's in their religious book, yet society seems appalled by shows like Big Love and Sister Wives. If it was cool back then, then why is it not now?? Now again, I don't believe in a...

Shaving is a must! Don't come near me with a bunch of hair down there! Blech! But there is an alternative to Nair that is made specifically for that oh-so sensitive area. It's called Balls Balm. I shave completely, and I expect the same from a lover.

DADT is simply that...DADT. How does you two talking on the phone get in the way of their relationship or break the DADT policy? Are you sure his wife actually knows about you? I was once in a relationship with a married man whose wife had the DADT policy. I was one of three gf's to this...

LOL! Where did that come from?!?;) But I totally agree, now that you brought it up. The term is rather silly. And yes, actually sleeping with someone else in your bed requires trust and is on another level of intimacy. I fuck many, but allow next to no one to spend the night in my bed.

I am sorry you are going through this epiphany. I have never gone through something like this, but I understand your pain. I think you need to take time for yourself (away from them both), work on yourself emotionally, and also decide where you want to go from here. When you are of clearer...

Welcome! And congrats on the babies!

Hi Dthwtch89! Welcome to the forum and thank you for your service.

Begin by stop listening to what other people have to say. This is your life and your decision. Yes, it is nice that you are close to your family and friends enough to have these talks, but you have to do you. And I think it is best to just come out and say it. Go ahead and have that talk...

I am so sorry you are going through this. I have never experienced this, but could imagine how hurt you feel. (((HUGS)))

This is always a difficult situation to deal with. But coming from someone who was in an abusive marriage, let me tell you that she is not going to leave him till SHE is ready. Trust me, she knows she is in a horrible relationship, but it isn't until something significant happens that she will...

I think you just need to have the talk. Otherwise, the "what-ifs" are going to get to you. Sit down with your husband and have an honest, open discussion. Lay out how you feel and what you want, then allow him to respond. Be accepting of how he may feel, his desires/concerns, and answer what...

Tell them when YOU feel it's the right time. I understand that mental health issues aren't something most people shout from the rooftops, but you will need to feel comfortable enough talking openly with that person about it, and also feel like you could trust them with the information. I don't...