Recent content by pyxiegrl

So I posted here many a years ago when my husband was kinda pushing the subject. I always knew somewhere in me I could have a poly relationship though I knew I didn't want to start our marriage off as that. Here we are 6 years later and I was the one having the poly talk with him! We have a few...

Hello!!! We are in the same boat here and in Arvada. It's been an interesting ride. Welcome!

I totally had this long reply written out... and my computer fritzed. Anywho here I go again. As far as giving him attention, yes a lot of my time goes to taking care of the child and the house, as he thinks is all my job since I'm a SAHM. A lot of the lack of attention also came from when I...

Another thought.... If I was to let my husband have a girlfriend what is an appropriate time they can spend together? Is it fair for me to set boundaries? Do I make the demand that he has to stay home with the kid at least once or twice a week so I can go out? Whether it be for a guy or just to...

So some background this will probably be too long but I talk a lot When my husband and I first started dating he told me that he was interested in a polyamory lifestyle and that he was bi. I may posted something about this before but..... here I am again. I had always told him that he was more...

I never said that we wouldn't get intimiate with them. Hence the idea of another couple. We're not just looking for another person to fulfill the need for sex. We are looking for something much more. The reason we would like another couple is for the understanding of our relationship and...

I am not bi. My husband is. We have come to the conclusion that what would work best for us is another couple. We have a family and love our family unit. For our interest personally we would like another couple, either commited or married that would understand that we have children and a family...

Well I'll admit I'm new to this whole polyamory thing. I do know a bit about it. When my husband first brought the subject up I did do some research on it. I'm not sure whether you read my introduction or not, but it explains more there. I understand the difference between swinging and poly. I...

Here's my thought based on my life.. Some of this will pertain to you and I'm sure that some will not. My husband and I have been married 2 years and together 3. He was very up front when we started dating that he was interested in a poly lifestyle. At first he wanted to experience 3 somes...

A lot of your concerns and fears are the same thing that I feel and go through. Though I'm not the one that first mentioned polyamory. My husband is also bi and I am straight. I know when we first dated I always told him that he was more than welcomed to have a boyfriend because I was not...

This thread is awesome! Thank you. This is one of my biggest concerns with anything. I know this is why I am not a swinger, nor am I big on just random gfs or bfs. My husband and I have both been tested, but I always worry about EVERYONE ELSE. Though I know we're not ready to jump into another...

me... Well a little about me. My husband and I have been married for 2 years and together for almost 3 and have a 1 year old. When we first started dating he was very up front with me about his sexuality and thought on relationships. He is bi sexual and have always liked the idea of...