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I think it is genuinely due to an enthusiasm they have for this and because she has seen her husband and me establish a close connection over the years. There was also always an unspoken, until now, mutual attraction. It feels very sincere and the conversations we’ve had make it feel right...

Thank you!!

Hi from Florida as well!

Not a board game or gaming girl in general but always up for good conversation. Hope everyone’s week is going well!!

Thank you for sharing. I am sure this is going to be a path that is not quite as simple as you may have hoped. I do love how you are validating her feelings and being empathetic. That is sometimes not easy to do. But you also have to be true to yourself and what ultimately is needed to make you...

Thank you so much for all of that Kevin!! It’s exciting and nerve wracking all at the same time but I am eager to learn more

Yeah, this is definitely less active then I was hoping for as it’s nearly impossible to find real, sincere advice and insights on this topic elsewhere, or at least I am not looking in the right places.

I cannot relate in any way, but I can feel it through your words. It does seem like you and she need to be really raw and open with one another. Help her understand why you feel the way you do, but truly listen to her feelings as well. This may not have the fairytale ending you are hoping...

I love that side of it..the introspection required, the full understanding of oneself to be able to lean into a place such as this. That all makes it very intriguing and interesting. I feel like there is a real sincerity in a connection that can be built with this kind of thing. At least...

I like this and have never heard this before. I would have typically said that I was strictly heterosexual but I definitely see some bi curiosity in me of late

I love that for you and agree. The openness and raw honesty that is needed in this sort of thing is a great thing and I think would make connection building all the more genuine and sincere. Love how you and your gf met and am very grateful for my friend to approach me in such a sincere and...

I am new to all of this, so perhaps my opinion doesn’t make sense or is lacking experience behind it, so take it for what it’s worth. I don’t think it’s unreasonable for your wife to want to have a strong foundation and connection before stepping into the lifestyle. I can only assume that...

It was my friend that approached me about her and her husband exploring a Polyamorous lifestyle and that she adored the relationship her husband and I and that she felt there could possibly be mutual interest there. She didn’t pressure me, nor was she presumptuous, it was a very sweet and...

So, this is a bit of a high-level story as to what ultimately led me to finding this site. A close friend of mine has been married for many years. I have become very close with her family. Her husband and I have also established a close connection and bond. We are very much alike in our...

I was thinking the same as others. How would you even choose someone, based on size, without asking up front and validating? It seems to me that would completely make the connection superficial and not based on connection and chemistry. Regardless if I may have a preference I would never lead...