Recent content by realtimeeyes

She did know I'd say no so I do give her grace on that situation. This thread has been very helpful so far; I appreciate all the input. And I'm not bitter about the blunt honesty. I needed other's point of view to help expose my issues with the current situation.

Thank you for the advice and the links..I know I'm not ready but I want to learn and see if it's something for me. If not, she has to make a decision. I do have a lot of personal and emotional growth to do and that's my current focus.

Thank you for your reply..And I appreciate the honesty. Everything you said had some truth and I know I have some growing to do..We are actually taking a break and working on ourselves. I do love her and want to be a better man so I can give her what she needs. I came here to learn and improve...

Hi, I'm new to the forum and to polyamory so I could use some advice from those with knowledge and experience. My wife and I have been married 15 years. We have been discussing poly for a few years. Originally, I didn't do enough research and didn't truly understand all the dynamics. We got...