Recent content by RedQ

She'll still have a baby with or without me. She's been wanting one for a long while now. I'm just making sure all procedures are going well for her and shes being taken care of. So no way in hell will she pause the TTC just to sort things through. :/

And to be honest... I'm scared af because we three are trying to conceive and I dont want to lose this :(.

I'm talking to her by end of weekend. Wish me luck, all. Let's see where this goes. Hopefully she understands me. I actually wrote a few lines/a list to tell her how I'm feeling... It's not you. I love you I desire a deep emotional connection. I'd want to have more sex. I'd like to be able to...

I am addicted to love, then :|. So, I should find someone who will understand I will probably need to find someone new again in the near future? I don’t know. I honestly do not know. I mean, I’m a grown ass woman, good career, good family background, parents married for a long time now, like why...

Sorry, missed out on the second part of it. The honest truth is that every time I seek a out of my relationships is when something is missing, the moment I feel something is wrong I tend to want something new :|. But I will sit down and really think about what you’ve said. I greatly appreciate...

Thank you...

I will never neglect my current relationship. I adore her dearly. A thing about her that if my day is going horribly bad just looking at her smile brightens my day. I have a question, though, do you think there are people out there that will want to be with someone poly while they are mono? Am I...

I have the two options which is to open up to her and tell her exactly how I'm feeling because I dont want to live an unhappy life and ease her in to seeing me with someone new. Let me rephrase, though, I'd say I dont feel complete, not entirely unhappy. She even messaged me after an argument...

Well now you left me thinking. I must be an NRE junkie where I desire that new passion, love, desire, although I'm so happy with my current. Now it scares me that even after having the new person I'll end up wanting another one in the near future. Who knows:/. I cheated like 10+ times in my one...

Trust me, that was exactly how I was feeling in the beginning and she also said she'd be okay with me seeing other women. Feelings change unfortunately:/. But, I hear ya.

Gala! As always, thank you for the reply. Ever since the beginning she said she'd be okay with me having another person but as things progressed and I fell more deeply in love with her, I told her that she was my only one and that I'd never need anyone else. Months after, I did bring up the...

Ok, so like, we’ve been in a poly relationship for going on 1yr 1/2. When we first started and months in the relationship I kept telling her I don’t need anyone else, that having her *was enough, but now I feel like it isn’t enough and I want to have a second person myself. She is married, I’m...

Galagirl, Thanks for pointing all that out. It is not that I'm pretending, though. We came to an agreement to not know about her other life so its kept away. Doesn't a poly relationship set rules as to how to workout the relationship? I'm asking because I've never been in one. I decided to meet...

The woman I love is married. She was upfront with me ever since the beginning letting me know she is in a poly relationship where she dates whoever she wants, her husband has the option to as well but chooses not to. A bit of my background... I had never heard of such thing given that I am from...