Recent content by RedRover

*chuckling* I get that...I am supposed to be looking over 100 day projections and paying bills, but instead, here I am pondering all this. I don't know why your thread has struck such a chord with me, I guess it has taken me back to the start of this "thing" with Thing One and Two. The blown...

Very much so...like Ben...he can't get his mind around how the dynamics of my marriage work....much to the chagrin of my husband...who would love nothing more then for the three of us to be "best buds" and hang out and do things together. Like Becky tho....our time is limited and it is a...

The "red flag" issue.....I see them...but I might be a fence sitter...I know how things can come to light and what looked like a red flag...may not be one after all. I do know a few couples who run on DADT for the use of pro domination services and while I'm not real keen on that...I do...

I on my way out the door cuz duty calls......but this: Made me chuckle and shake my head...sounds like the first time both my guys were in the same room. I am looking forward to chatting with you some more about this soon as I can slow down this evening.

It was a sincere move on his part..no "she's mine" alpha flexing. Nothing menacing. Just a southern guy who has some old fashioned manners......and felt it was the considerate thing to do. As I recall the text was pretty much "Hey, just wanted to make sure you know how to get in touch just...

I have read this thread four times now because of the statement I am going to make next: I'm with the ones who sense some red flags and that has been well defined so no need to add to it...I point it out because what I want to ask about and the further convo that might come out of it......might...

WOW. I don't use OKC...never have...but had a FetLife account for a while and one of the reasons I stopped logging into FL was cuz of these kinda *air*"messages"*quotes*. I guess it's good to know these people spread joy...every where?:confused:

Hi Glitterspins, Noob here myself but had to say your OP kinda hit home. My husband deals with this from time to time. We have implemented some "fail safe" measures to help him cope and not get to distanced from me but allowing him the space he needs. I'd be happy to share them with you if you...

Hi Al, thanks for the welcome. Sssshhhh...don't tell nobody....but I am an Okie disguised as a deep suhthnur. ;) This is my husband's home turf, the land of Swamp People, Mardis Gras and suckin' heads. (You may have to be from this area to get that ain't a sex thang.) Actually that exactly...

Hi Shaya, Thanks for the welcome. I had popped that very thread open earlier then had to go pick up my four legged kiddos from doggie day camp, was hoping to get a spot cleared this evening to do a good read thru and thanks for the link to the other articles. My secondary is a heavy duty...

New to this forum but not new to using forums or to the poly concept. Married almost 40 years to the love of my life, ended up with a secondary relationship thanks to a "cuck kink" he has....which is just one of many kinks he has. If I listed all of them I'd break the internet backbone :eek...