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    Monogamous in a Polyamorous Relationship

    GalaGirl - Thank you for your kind advice. Jimmy stopped seeing his therapist after the pandemic started. I encouraged him to make an appointment, even if it was a video conference, but he refuses to do so. The metaphor of the black hole is exactly what it feels like. I have expressed that to...
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    Monogamous in a Polyamorous Relationship

    I figured that I would be able to remain monogamous while he practiced polyamory, given the rule that I am not involved with his partners. I keep telling myself that he will change and improve. He's made improvements over the years, just not quite there yet. I am also afraid of what he will do...
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    Monogamous in a Polyamorous Relationship

    Q1&Q2 - Jimmy stopped dating for a bit due to work/school. During the past year, he's been on the dating scene, but no catch/bites, as far as I am aware. Q3 - Of the people I attempted to date, yes. Including those that he has attempted to date, I don't know. He hasn't had much success as of...
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    Monogamous in a Polyamorous Relationship

    Hello everyone, I am looking for any advice regarding my situation. I also hope to provide enough history and detail to paint the larger picture for those so inclined to listen to my story. My name is Ricky. I have been in a relationship with Jimmy since 2015. We were best friends for a few...
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    Not cut out for polyamory or lack of fire in relationship?

    Firstly, I would like to thank everyone for your thoughts and comments. It really helps to get viewpoints from those outside the box. I think I really am starting to understand that I may actually be monogamous. I liked the idea of polyamory because I was drawn to the idea of less restrictions...
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    Not cut out for polyamory or lack of fire in relationship?

    Hello everyone, I am currently going through some things in my relationship where I am feeling neglected, or even un-loved. But I wonder if those are just personal insecurities, or if I have gotten the definition of polyamory wrong. Background My boyfriend and I have lived together for 3 years...
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    Hello from CA

    Hello everyone. My name is Ricky and I am bisexual. I have been in a polyamorous relationship for 6 months now, though some would argue that my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. There's a long back-story to that, but I'm not sure if that's to be explained here. :D Anyway, my...
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