Recent content by Rubberhead

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    New and confused

    Thank you again I’m being supportive of both women’s feelings, yet struggling with my own. As for a relationship with this other woman, I don’t really have one. I somehow hold a great deal of respect for her, she has shown me kindness and thoughtfulness and respect, both before and after this...
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    New and confused

    Well... that’s kind of brutal. I don’t have permission from either of them to use their names, so respectfully, I’ve chosen to not to. This is my first post, and first experience, so I’m here for advice, and support. For the most part, I’ve gotten some eye opening, intelligent replies, that...
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    New and confused

    Thanks everyone. the thing is, it’s my wife that approached me first, then this woman, about the feelings she’s developed for her. Perhaps the gay woman would be willing to engage in sexual intimacy with me, but I’m guessing the primary arousal would come from my wife. I’ve made mistakes of...
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    New and confused

    Hi You are correct, in that I do have possessive feelings, however mixed with the understanding that my wife be free to explore that side of her sexuality. We have talked at length about what a sexual encounter would look like, and my wife understands that I would be present for the first few to...
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    New and confused

    Already, with just a few responses, I feel incredibly better. I know my shortcomings emotionally, and it’s nice to see people with experience engaging with me, in an effort to help me understand things better. The gay lady, has suggested that she would be open to trying intimacy with me, yet I...
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    New and confused

    Thank you I’ve tried reading via what google throws at me, and found it was disastrous and misleading. My wife shared that she was bi with me when we started dating, however, my ignorance of the term made me “think” she was suggesting she’d want a threesome, and always hold the marriage dear...
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    New and confused

    Hi everyone My name is Peter, and this is my first post, as I’ve just been told by my wife of 5 years that she has developed feelings for her coworker, who happens to be a openly gay lady. After an open and loving discussion, I told my wife I’d be willing to try a poly “throuple” relationship...
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