Recent content by RumSodomyLash

Could Be Hi Kevin, Thanks for the reply. It's not consistent with what I know about his character for him to be intentionally using me as a backup plan, but then again, it could be something of which he's not really conscious. Also, I tend to see people about whom I care in the best light...

Flying Solo Hello, I'm Ananas, solo poly and rather newly so. I'm in a rather amorphous relationship with NerfHerder (also solo poly), and actively looking for new partners. I'm divorced (we had so many issues that mono/poly never even made it on the list), and came to poly through my...

Hello, I'm Ananas, 29-year-old hetero-flexible female - currently involved in a rather amorphous relationship with NerfHerder (30-year-old straight male), as well as various other connections whose significance has yet to become clear. NerfHerder and I both practice BDSM (it's how we met, and I...

Further considerations I've decided to take opalescent's advice and do nothing for now. I've realized that my desire to be acknowledged on Fet mostly has to do with proving to his other partner (let's call her B) that I'm not going anywhere, and I don't think that's a terribly healthy...

I'm quite new to poly and having my first real poly hiccup, and could really use some advice and different perspectives. As background, I am both poly kinky, as is the relationship about which I'm looking for better understanding. I have a wonderful friend/partner whom I've been dating...