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When your wife says yes and your girlfriend says no. I talked with my sister about how I felt sitting in the back of the van. She said that if you are in a relationship to fill a role then anyone can fill it. If what you bring to a relationship is yourself, then you can't be replaced. I should...

Thank you all so much. All of your advice really helped and makes sense.

My partner and I have been together for eight years now and we have two young children together. He has a girlfriend and they have been together for just about a year. My partner and I are the primary relationship in this. We have young children so our relationship needs to take precedence. I...

Hi, Beka! Your bird analogy is a good way to put it. If you hold on too tight, then you lose everything. I found that applies to MS as well. I've found it interesting how others have reacted to Succubus, Wendigo, and I becoming poly. One friend had been talking about how she just wishes that...

When I was fifteen I met Wendigo. He was twenty-two and dating one of my older friends. I had the biggest crush on him. He has gorgeous eyes and I liked that he looked directly at me when we talked. But I had a rule about dating any ex's of my friends and the age difference at the time would...

Skype and I honestly don't know. I'm sure he's going to collapse at any minute.:D

I've decided to start this blog mostly to help me organize my thoughts so that I can express myself better and so that I can share what is going on for me. I also love writing but if there is no one to read it then it's like if I fall over in the woods, and no one hears me, do I exist? Well, you...

Hello, and thank you! W does look after the kids when he can. He works hard to support us and, with one of his jobs, he works away for half the month. I would like to date but my life is really full right now. The babies, and I'm working with a theater group to have one of my plays performed...

Hi, I'm newly in a poly relationship. My partner and I have been together for seven years now and have two babies together. He has five children from a previous marriage. We have talked about opening up our relationship for a few years now. He currently has a girlfriend whom he has been dating...