Recent content by ScaledMenace

So many people who reacted! Thank you all for reading through and giving advice and resources. Seph, "Steve" and I have decided to try the V approach for now. The reason why I wanted to make the group work so desperately was because when it was suggested, Seph was exstatic, quoting it to...

Hi! Thanks again - it definitely helps a lot to have a more experienced queer person's eye on this. There is a lot of context that didn't really fit the whole post that might matter in that regard: Her and I realized we weren't straight when we were 14. I actually was her first serious...

Hello Evie, thank you so much for your response, it means the world to me. We watched two videos - one about 4 (very generalized) types of poly relationships (Primary+others, Group, Egalitarian network and Solo), as well as a long video about several topics, such as time-management, sharing...

First, thanks for answering! And that's a good point. I think the issue with that is my jealousy and inferiority. I don't know if I currently trust her enough not to end up "choosing" him. Not after our conversation. But in the end, that's my problem, not theirs. I need to think about this a...

Hello everyone! My name's Finn, 23/cisfem, lesbian. Thanks for checking my thread out - and if you have any advice on how to handle this situation and what steps I can take to make things work, I'd be so, so thankful to hear them. I've been in a commited relationship with my girlfriend (23...