Recent content by Scared2Try

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    Scared to move forward

    I believe it was a speed issue. The transition happened very quickly, if you ask me. But it felt right for her. I'm not sure exactly what category of ENM we're working towards at the moment. My emotional readiness changes day to day. I'm like a teenager trying to find themselves. She knows of...
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    Scared to move forward

    It's not one specific person, per se. I find that I put my jealousy towards one person, tho. I find a reason and push it, due to my own insecurities. Right now, as it stands, she says her intentions with guys is just friendship. In my mind, I find it hard to accept that. I already feel that I'd...
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    Scared to move forward

    I wish I was that good with words and emotions to start with. I feel every time I've brought it up so far I've only cause her to pity me and want to stop because im jealous.
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    Scared to move forward

    You never had any issues? Never feared losing her after another man had her? Even just in the emotional sense? Her taking time talking to other, making plans, smiling, and blushing at her phone? No issues at all?
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    Scared to move forward

    I've found that my jealousy come out even when it is just talking. Hearing her phone go off or seeing her smile while texting somebody else leaves me feeling inadequate. Feeling like do have to fight for the time and connection even tho she says we have it and doesn't want anything else. I feel...
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    Scared to move forward

    Hey everyone, sorry if this is drawn out or just doesn't make sense but im need to even asking for help. My wife and I have been together since middle school. In that time I had made some stupid decisions and hurt trust but we have always made it through. Fast forward here we are 14yrs later, 2...
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