Recent content by SierraValley356

Hey everyone, I know I had quite a few people on here who were invested in my relationship with my ex, which was posted on here in two separate posts. We are now about 10 weeks out from the breakup and we have been no contact for about 6 of those weeks. I had extended an offer of friendship to...

I feel at a bit of a loss and I'm not quite sure I am doing the right thing. I am the hinge within a poly V. I (28F) have my fiance and NP Kevin (32M) and my other partner Tyler (31M). Kevin and I have been together over two years, and Tyler and I had been together about 9 months. Tyler lived 2...

I feel a bit crazy. I am heartbroken. He is insisting this breakup is a rash decision and we could have made things work. At this point, I just feel he has relationship needs I can't satisfy and he would be much happier in a relationship with someone with a lot more available time. I feel like I...

Update: I ended things with Tyler. I think there were a lot of needs that I wasn't going to be able to meet for him. He was asking for more calls, voice messages, selfies and other bonding time, which would have cut into my time with Kevin, and what little personal time I have. It's been a...

Thank you for the overview. I think you are right about me taking on his emotional baggage. I think that's kinda who I am as a person (probably trauma related) that I will work with my therapist on. I shouldn't take so much of his emotional baggage. I have enough of my own. I'm rather...

I primarily drive. I also found it very frustrating he wanted to be "the first" to take me on those forms of transportation. (Even if it isn't my first time just haven't rode in a while) It's very important to him that he be the first to do things with me and it just ends up making me feel...

He does have a therapist but I'm unsure if he has brought it up with them because I think he believes i am the one being unreasonable here. He definitely has abandonment issues. He was adopted and his ex wife kinda treated him like an annoying roommate who just got in her way. I can understand...

We've talked about it and we are at an impasse. I think he shouldn't tell me that he's upset about these trips because it takes the joy out of these trips, and he feels it's important for him to be able to vocalize how he is feeling with me. If I ask him to not tell me about his upset with the...

A good majority of the time he and I get along great. We are very similar and have a lot of great time together. It's really just these trips that he gets stuck on.

Hi everyone! I am looking for some advice on a situation I am running into with one of my partners. I will be using fake names for anonymity. I (28F) have two partners, Kevin (32M), and Tyler (31M). Kevin is my NP and we are publicly engaged. We do not advertise we are poly to those around us as...