Recent content by Snic85

My husband is in his first relationship since we became poly. He isn't the best at communication and it's causing issues. The first time I felt disrespected was when he had his gf over and only told me minutes before she showed up. We did talk about the possibility of having significant others...

You sound a lot like me! I think open communication is the most important thing. In my first relationship my ex lied about dating other girls and lied to my face when I confronted him about it. The lying was more hurtful than anything! I can handle any jealousy I may have had, but not the lies...

I didn't see it as a red flag at the time. He was always so concerned about how my husband was adjusting and making sure that my marriage was okay. He was even very excited after he met my husband. He said he wanted us all to hang out again so they could get to know each other. He was very good...

Actually, I have been thinking about the days leading up to the break up and have thought that the pregnancy became to real for him. He met my husband just prior to it and the last time I saw him, he felt the baby move for the first time and I'm really starting to show. In the text he sent he...

I have thought that could be it, but what is a true rebound? He went on a dating spree before I came along, and slept with two people. Nothing lasted more than a few weeks and some became friends. I won't be anyone's first relationship after a divorce or break up again.

You do have some good points. I actually wanted to slow down in the relationship for this very reason. I didnt want it to get serious, I didn't want to fall for him, I didn't want to let my guard down and get hurt. He pushed for me to open up and let him in, he wanted more. He's the one who...

That is very possible. Maybe I'm not your typical girl. I want the truth no matter how brutal it is. If someone lies to "protect" my feelings, I'm hurt even more once I find out it was all a lie, and its like reliving the pain all over again times ten. He knows this, but I think it makes him...

Honest my ass! Then why did he reactivete his profile on the dating page we met on. He obviously lied about needing to be single for a while. Maybe lying makes him feel better. He's pretty damn good at it. I've never dated someone who could lie so easily to my face and I not pick up on it.

You are so right about feeling shocked. I told him that he should have expressed his concerns. I wish he would have let me in, it would have made things easier if i would have had a clue.

I don't know what to do. My ex dumped me a week ago. We where together for about four months. I know that may not seem long, but I feel like we had something really special. I felt like he was the first person that has truly understood me. He seemed okay with the fact that I am married and even...

We do have a lot of things in our relationship that others we know don't. The sex has always been just that sex, but really good sex. Something you do because it feels so good, it has no meaning in it, you don't "feel" the intimacy, the love. With my ex the actual sex didn't feel nearly as good...

I just posed about my first poly relationship. You should read it. It sounds like she may be getting married for the wrong reasons. To truly be happy, you need that emotional connection. You need to truly understand each other on the deepest level possible.

I've been with my husband for 9yrs, and we have two kids. We have a good marriage, we can talk about anything, the sex is great, we are very supportive of each other, but I've always felt like something has been missing. We decided recently to try having a poly marriage. I was with an amazing...

The breakup A week after the lies he dumped me by text message. He didn't even have the balls to do it in person. I was not only devastated but shocked. I never saw it coming. Things were great till a week ago, at least I thought so. His excuse was he needs to work on himself before getting...

My first poly relationship.... I met him on okcupid. I'll call him E and my husband W. After talking to several guys, he was the only one that I connected with and was willing to meet. On our first date we went out to dinner. I was so nervous I'm pretty sure that I was shaking. I've never been...