Recent content by sophie-brida

It took way too long, but I finally broke up with NP. I feel totally lost now. It felt so wrong to end a relationship with someone I love so much. Everything was right in our relationship except for him to let me have another man in my life. I tried to push my feelings away and live with NP, but...

I guess you're right. It helps to hear it from an outsider.

Two months ago I asked my partner if he would have ANY space for me to be in a poly relationship with a man. We didn't talk about it until last week. I asked him again and he said: not really. Yesterday he said that maybe there would be space for a sexual relationship, but not a romantic one...

We did talk about that a little bit in the past. He told me a couple of times that he would be okay with me seeing a woman and that he would find it more difficult if it were a man. More difficult, to me, doesn't sound like impossible. But I'm afraid that's where we are at the moment. I'm not...

The whole situation is realy upsetting. If we hadn't talked about being poly all those years I would understand it a little better. But we have been talking about it. Being mono feels unnatural for both of us. At least, that's what we both said to each other and to people we got talking about...

Hello everyone. I'm new here. English is not my native language, so it won't be perfect. My partner and I have been together now for 15 years. When I met him, he told me he had a girlfriend and he didn't want to break up with her. For a while he cheated on her. Then he and I found out about...