Recent content by spaghetticat

Well, I spent some time with my family In Canada, it was totally wonderful, I even got to meet my sister and her hubby's girlfriend, who is very sweet. Its very obvious L is not used to being away from loved ones for so long, so I felt bad, but M did really well, as we are so used to being...

I don't have any advice. I feel that one of my loves feels like this sometimes, and it breaks my heart, but I am trying to just be happy that right now we are all happy. Everything eventually leads to sadness or changes, so I am just trying to enjoy the happy moments. It's hard, but I am trying...

And enters complication.... For all intensive purposes, L has been acting single as his family is very nosy and very conservative... which brought him to having a friend offer to be his "wing man" at this party we are all going to.. He didnt know what to say so said that sounds good... We talked...

Things have been particularly un-crazy lately. L has been working a LOT in addition to school and M also has been working a lot. I am missing out on the time I am used to having with both. IN the main time I have been having some me time.. Not really my favorite thing but not too terrible...

hmmmm Just wanting to get stuff off my chest, I guess kind of a rant but its long, dont feel obliged to read.. sometimes writing things helps me review them and understand them :) I am having a hard time not juggling my life at the moment... Does that make any sense? For about 3.5 years I did...

I am so glad there is no issue, lol I over-worry sometimes:o

Yeah, that was my bad. I didn't realize at the time that if we had 3 friends in common it would be safe to assume they were from the forum. I totally felt like an ass after that, and apologized to Mono, as I am not trying to cause any kind of drama at all. I did explain to one friend who I was...

My memory is drawing a blank.. did i already add you? If not click the link in my siggy :)

I decided to tell some very close friends that we have an alternative relationship after an incident. One couple I did tell them a bit more but not *who*, because since we are so close I know I would say something just with how comfortable I am. On the other hand L lives a bit far away so its...

Pming you! And for the record I am just making my page a poly friendly zone. I don't really intend to write about it on other peoples pages just because i dont know who you have on your page (general you) :)

Welcome to the board!

I don't have any advice but welcome to the board!

Just wanted to say welcome to the board, i LOVE your name, I am a big cat fan! :D

Some who do know what I am talking about still think I am nuts. But at least I'm the good kind of crazy. :p

Welcome!