Recent content by Stevefromtexas

NYCindie, thank you so much for your last response. It shows that I was understood fully. Due to everyone's responses I know what needs to be done. I did not start this thread with any premeditated expectations for a certain response. I came in with an open mind, willing to listen to any and all...

From the overwhelming similar responses, therapy, it seems, is the best answer. I accept that I have a hard time letting it all go in order to move forward, and now with everyone's help, realize that is what I must do. This has been enlightening and very helpful to me and my emotions. And even...

I guess my reasoning was, essentially what drives us apart is fuzzy feelings of something new. If we were to find someone new together as a team and all three of us were okay with it, then we all three get the fuzzy feelings and there's no need to do it behind each other's back. Once again sex...

Clearly from all of your responses it shows that I am not thinking clearly. I appreciate the honesty in helping me out. I suppose I was just looking for an option to add some emotional spark to our marriage without considering all the factors involved.

No, she is not bisexual. However, it's not like you assume, where I am trying to force it upon her. We have spoken about this, and while she did not say yes, she did not seem too bothered by it either. I explained, and she played devil's advocate and said, "Well, why don't we get a BF?" After...

First off, thank you for all the honest replies. You all have opened my eyes. But please allow me to explain my thoughts behind the "trying poly" comment. I may still be wrong, but I just think it might help me sort out my issues. We have a three-year old son. He is a major part of why we stay...

Hello to all, My wife and I have been together for 13 years, married for 8, and have been strictly mono. A few years ago, we both "lightly cheated" at right about the same time. No actual sex, supposedly, but it did get physical, and if not found out/caught, would probably have eventually got...