Recent content by Stevek

I am way too shitty with words and unable to explain my emotions clearly. I thought she would put up some fight when I suggested that I am going to change the passcode. She literally knew mine since our third or fourth date. I know she feels sorry but maybe I am just looking for a fight. Sorry...

I am trying to remember when was the last time I went through my wife's phone, if ever. I had the same pass code since I met her lol. Maybe we needed that before but not now. I already told her that I am changing my pass code and she is fine with it. through very long text messages. She is just...

Kaitlyn got in touch with me last night and told me that she is fine and that she still loves me. She is a bit shaken by the fact that there was an unwitting third member in our relationship. She told me that she is especially upset about the phone snooping, but she also read about my wife's...

I knew that she gets turned on after i had sex with Kaitlyn but the things she admitted to definitely gave me a pause. I didn't think she was this deep into her kink and the breach of privacy and subjecting Kaitlyn to her kink without her consent is definitely upsetting. I don't know. I have...

Thanks for your messages. We have always had access to each other's phones and I want that to continue for practical reasons, but once Emma knew that Kaitlyn and I were seeing each other, I assumed she would know that certain areas on my phone were off limits. Maybe it is on me for not setting...

Yesterday was one of the worst days I have ever had. I dropped Emma off at a restaurant where she was meeting Kaitlyn. I had to go to the garage, where I had to deal with an idiot who did not want to pay for the repairs his car desperately needed. At one point, I kid you not, he said, "I will...

Emma is cool. It is Kaitlyn who might not be okay with my wife's fetish.

Thanks a lot for the kind messages. After I was expressing some hesitation about the duration of the trip, Emma told me that they already booked a place and wanted to surprise me. As a compromise, I suggested that we all take a day trip before the big trip and see how things go. I don't think...

I am worried that there will be some kind of talks for threesome (which I am completely down for) and I am worried that it might hurt Emma after everything is over.

So... Emma and Kaitlyn became very good friends now and are planning a trip with me in the coming weeks. The three of us for 3-4 days while the kids are away. I think it is a bad idea.

They will know that my wife is hanging out with her but she is not going to be a constant presence.

After talking to Emma, we decided not to tell the kids. Maybe we will revisit this topic in a couple of years. Thanks for the suggestions.

They kind of know about Kaitlyn as Emma told them that she is running with a new friend and as she went on some trips with her.

Updated the post with K's age too. I thought I would just tell them without Kaitlyn actually being there. Just Emma and I will sit them down and break the news.

Howdy all, Some of the regulars are familiar with my life story, but I will try my best to distill my current situation. I have been married to my wife, Emma for 15 years and we have two sons: Joe (14) and Logan (11). Due to a dead bedroom situation, Emma and I dipped our toes into...