Recent content by Stevek

They will know that my wife is hanging out with her but she is not going to be a constant presence.

After talking to Emma, we decided not to tell the kids. Maybe we will revisit this topic in a couple of years. Thanks for the suggestions.

They kind of know about Kaitlyn as Emma told them that she is running with a new friend and as she went on some trips with her.

Updated the post with K's age too. I thought I would just tell them without Kaitlyn actually being there. Just Emma and I will sit them down and break the news.

Howdy all, Some of the regulars are familiar with my life story, but I will try my best to distill my current situation. I have been married to my wife, Emma for 15 years and we have two sons: Joe (14) and Logan (11). Due to a dead bedroom situation, Emma and I dipped our toes into...

Kaitlyn and Emma are on a trip right now. Never expected that something like this would be happening in my life.

Kaitlyn told me that she loves me. She immediately prefaced by saying that I don't have to say it back. I was an idiot and I just nodded. I kind of guessed that she was in love with me and I would be lying if I said that I didn't love her back. After a couple of days (yesterday), I also told her...

Just putting my thoughts here but there were some positive changes. They had a great time. Emma and Kaitlyn both like trail running and apparently they like the same spots too. Emma told me that the topic of "Steve" didn't come up the first 45 minutes. Emma said they just discussed about K's...

I mean I can always send them to my brothers' 😂

Currently, due to the limitations on my time, they might have to just meet each other just by themselves. I am taking the kids to bouldering and that will give each other a solid 2 hours to get acquainted.

Well, the ladies are meeting this Saturday. What is the protocol? Should I be there? Should i just leave them to deal with each other?

Happy valentine's day to everyone. I took my wife's advice and I am spending valentine's weekend with Kaitlyn. I don't want to think too much about my marital troubles with Emma. Just want to spend a cozy couple of days with Kaitlyn. Hope you all are having a blast with your loved ones.

I probably reached my breaking point. My parents volunteered to watch all their grandkids so that their sons can have a nice Valentine's day weekend with their wives. I was planning to spend the Saturday with Emma and the Sunday with Kaitlyn but Emma suggested that I should spend the Friday...

My son will be the first to find out about my relationship with Kaitlyn. I thought I cleaned up all the evidence of Kaitlyn being at our place but forgot the two coffee mugs on the counter. He asked me, "Who else was here?" I just told him that I just poured it in two cups out of habit, but he...

Kaitlyn spent last night here. This is the second time she has been at my place, and yesterday was great. Some good cooking, sex before going to bed and sex after waking up, the whole nine yards. However, I feel like I have been so brainwashed by monogamy, that this still feels wrong, after...