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    My Polyfidelity Quad Life

    Do what makes you happy! While I am relaying on your updates to confirm Quad relationships are attainable and beautiful; ( This is what Sun80 and I want) I could not deny over these 9 months or so - it has been Steve who has been supporting your emotional and physical needs and wants. Do mono...
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    My Polyfidelity Quad Life

    It's an improvement, so that's a good thing! I'm happy to read this update =) As to believing what Betty told you about Peter telling her that he loves her or not - don't sweat it. That's their relationship and just be happy that she is getting more of an emotional relationship she's been in...
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    Sun80's Intro from his perspective

    Of course you are right Tinwen, and that a completely reasonable request. I'm not sure how to edit post, but I'll just place the broken up - easier to read version below. Sun80 kept me up really late making the translations sentence by sentence and I was too lazy to do it right the first time. I...
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    My Polyfidelity Quad Life

    "I have forgiven him but I can't seem to shake the feelings of emotional and physical abandonment." - I would never forget if I was you, and don't blame you at all. It reminds me of that saying. 'Fool me once, shame on you; Fool me twice shame on me.' He neglected you for so long that every...
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    Struggling

    I love that you are able to expressive yourself well. It helps to avoid misunderstandings on issues. I get how you can see his first recommendation to introduce a 4th can been seen as a knee-jerk type of solution on his part, and that doesn't really address your concerns and fears. Ignoring his...
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    Sun80's Intro from his perspective

    My life story started back when I was 5 years old. My family was poor and we all lived in a single room - all 7 of us. One night I overheard my father and my mother becoming intimate, I saw this over and over again without realizing what I was actually observing. I thought of this as some type...
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    Struggling

    OK, so I'm new here and am currently in mono, hoping to form into poly once we move - that being said I have some thoughts. 1st and foremost, your feelings are real and need to be validated just as much as your BF's feelings. The following might be hard to read.... He has been bringing up the...
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    My Polyfidelity Quad Life

    Thanks! Thank you for sharing your story! Moon88 here (28/f/bi/dom) I have to say the beginning of your story hit home with me, I am currently on my own weight-loss journey, and my husband is getting more and more physical with me (Not that we had a problem before, but less weight opened up...
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    Hoping to make Life More Delicious

    <(*-*)> Hello again! Thanks for the reply, I did write it with my husband, as I believe not many here would understand French or Arabic, as those are the languages he knows. We are still working on his English. We saw that recommendation that we should each have an account, but because of his...
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    Hoping to make Life More Delicious

    Greetings from most likely across the pond! I am not sure where to start, but this is an Introduction page after all right? You can call me T, a female in my late 20's who has had so much life experiences already. I left everything I had in the U.S.A and left to live in another here in North...
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