Recent content by Thornedlove

I feel he is sincere. I've explained many times that I'm not capable of 'going poly'.

Yes, at that that point we would be divorcing. He has already broken trust in the past by emailing other women while we were dating and after we got married. This is essentially our last chance at working things out.

I am taking medications and going to therapy to work on my own mental issues. I've also done a lot of reading on the forums and through books and Internet about poly. I just know I'm not capable of having that type of relationship :-(

I'm sorry it's taken so long for me to respond. The holidays always cause a lot of anxiety for me so I had to deal with that first. He claims he has researched the idea of poly for a while and knows this is what he is wired for. I don't believe it's escapism, I've given him plenty of opportunity...

Thank you all for your responses. I really don't want to leave him, but at the same time I feel like the younger my baby is if I decide to do that the better for him in the long run. I have plenty of help from my parents to raise him alone without my husband if need be. That being said, he seems...

Hi everyone, I'm a newbie to the forums and looking for some advice on my situation. My husband and I have been married for about 5 years and have a 5 month old son. My husband had discovered around this time last year that he believed in poly relationships and felt that's who he is. I accepted...