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Great, you seem on the same page after all. It's a choice, and definitely not a bad one, to discuss boundaries together! Requesting a...

I hear your request. I just thought Ariakis was trying to tell the OP that mono/poly relationships are doomed to fail, that the monos...

I think this is a confusion, Ariakas must be using solo poly slightly differently than it's usually used...? I thought solo poly are...

Our V has now existed for a decade. I probably don't really count as a mono person, since I'm totally able to have a crush and lately I...

Man when things are good I just get busy haha.. Nice to be back. Who knows maybe this time I can remember to pop in here once in a...

Hmm, yeah, ok. So he wants poly. Question remains, even if you accept this emotionally (and I do think it's possible under certain...

Could he "be" poly and not date? Maybe that's what he's been doing for the past decade ;) There's a grey zone between mono and poly. You...

Hello FeralGoblin96, It doesn't sound like A is being very nice to you, and either he was lying to you for the past six years, or he is...

Down day today. Maybe I am holding onto hope. Maybe I want thing to work out, whatever that looks like. We chatted last night, ended...

Thank you for that information, and as I write this I am actively talking to him about it as well, and the info being provided from all...

It's a balancing act. If you two are are in agreement on being a primary couple and want to only fluid-bond with each other, you can do...

The timing was good as that I had a point of reference like: after you go see him tomorrow, it would make me feel more comfortable if...

It's 10 PM and she has work the next day. Presumably she's coming home to sleep, right? Why is that great timing for a talk? You and she...

To me it seems there is some room for compromise. She's already making an effort to meet you sexually, even if it's on a schedule and...

I don't think this situation is really telling about your comfort level with polyamory in general. It says you want more from this man -...